First time Dad's

Although I am not a first time Dad, I can shed some light on this subject for those of you guys that are expecting to become a daddy.. I know it seems like when you hear the words I'm pregnant, it seems like your world is going to end...
You will have all kinds of thoughts going through your head like; Do I really want to do this, Will I be a good enough father, Will I be able to hang out with my friends, Does she want me anymore..
All kinds of things run through your mind, and you feel scared and alone.. Your not alone... There are thousand of guys that go through this everyday... I had those thoughts and feelings. I won't lie to you. It is very frightening to hear those words. You just need to take it one day at a time. Listen to what your wife/girlfriend wants. Make sure you are there for her when she needs you to be.. Take it from me I know this.. I was not there for her when she needed me.. I was more of a jerk than anything with our 2nd child. It was not fun times. We pushed through it and we are still together today. So just keep your chin up and work together you will get through it.. I know this for a fact, because seeing your first child come into this world, is a feeling that CAN NOT be duplicated!!!!!